The 6-month mentorship programme for those who want to elevate all aspects of their life and get to thrive in their (most likely, very visible) career
If you’re ready for expansion then you’ve landed on the right page.
The Elevate Experience is a unique 1:1 coaching container for people who want to reclaim parts of them that feel a little lost or even completely abandoned and get on in areas of their life that they have felt as if they are self-sabotaging on repeat. This ultimately is about having more joy, love and fun in life and importantly be and feel more YOU - in a way that feels good, rather than unmanageable or forced. There's no faking it to make it around here, it's about it being all in and loving it.
I specialise in helping established entrepreneurs, influencers and public figure who are looking for support.
I can guess you’re feeling a bit off right now, maybe you can't even put your finger on it. But you do know that you want more for yourself. What’s more, you’re probably wondering WTF has to give in order to feel like you can have it all and be YOU and not feel guilty. Not to mention you are likely having to also deal with a lot of peoples perceptions of you and often feel like you have to many people to keep everyone happy. Exposure can leave you feeling very exposed and the bigger the audience, often the less space there is for you.
I CAN SAY WITH COMPLETE CONFIDENCE THAT THIS COACHING EXPERIENCE WON’T BE WHAT YOU THINK IT IS.
THINGS REALLY CAN CHANGE AND IT WILL BE POSSIBLE FOR YOU, EVEN IF YOU HAVE TRIED BEFORE WITH NO SUCCESS.
YOU SEE, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF IN A WAY YOU NEVER HAVE BEFORE.
In the way I get to help you understand you. Getting this up close and personal with yourself is completely different from a lot of traditional self development or therapy. The reason why things haven't necessarily worked long term in the past, is not because it is impossible, but because you simply were looking in the wrong area.
We also like to perform as if we have out shit together and have got it all sorted which doesn't help.
I specialise in working with people just like you - people who are creative, seen as successful, independent… and who generally have to be visible to make an impact and income. Sometimes that visibility can cloud things.
I know all too well how easy it is to be successful and struggling. How the need to be seen as transparent also makes you feel like hiding and how difficult it can be to make change when you fear anyone knowing.
But, here's the thing. Avoiding things that feel off in your life doesn't make you feel better or even more accepted, it tends to make you feel like you have more to hide!
You may even think that everything has a cost so is this just the price of success in one way or another?
Often perceived as larger than life, quite the character or someone who has their shit together, even you are confused.
If so, I get it. I really do. But feeling this way is totally natural.
All human beings want is to be loved and accepted (it’s as innate as it is intrinsic). It’s normal to want to belong.
But right now all of this buried stuff is making you feel more disconnected than ever.
On the one hand, you’re sharing more than you really want to - feeling forced to explain (and/or justify) things 24/7.
Or perhaps the opposite is true - and you feel like you’re being a bit of a fraud because you’re sharing, but not always the real you. You’re afraid that if people knew the truth about who you actually are, they would leave. That you would be rejected. Or maybe even lose it all.
You can’t quite kick the little niggle that there’s something different/wrong with you. You may even question at times if you are a 'bad'?
Shall I tell you something else I know about you?
That you are hoping for and dreaming of so much more.
You have a big vision somewhere in you and even though you are surface level confident about it, you are watering it down.
Just. In. Case.
Perhaps you put your all into work because it's easier than your love life...
Or go around being busy because then you don't have time for that idea...
But you’re wrong.
Because believe it or not, success in all areas is possible and you can sustain it all.
You just have been using the wrong data to date, misunderstanding yourself, let alone external events and other people.
I can help.
This is deep immersive work, but it is also light and fun.
Everything we do together will be completely confidential. You’re safe to express here and are fully supported judgement free.
WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW YOU OPERATE (AND WHY) YOU GET TO FLIP THE SCRIPT ON EVERYTHING.
THE ELEVATE EXPERIENCE IS FOR YOU IF…
You’re longing to understand yourself, fully, not just who you think you have to be or SHOULD be.
You want to make an impact online, but not have it impact you offline - you want your home life to be just as rewarding and gratifying as your work life.
You are more confident in your abilities at work than you are outside of it - your career or business has always felt safe compared with relationships that feel more dangerous.
You are censoring yourself online (and/or offline) to maintain your safety and your security - you’ve seen so many people being turned on that you fear it might happen to you, too.
You operate from a place of reactivity - you would love to get back to proactive and excited.
You are stuck in a cycle of collecting and analysing data, and letting insights be a measure of your worth.
Your follower count is increasing, but the more people that you gain, the more of yourself you lose. There seems to be less room for you on your account, the more your platform grows.
You are neglecting (or rather, abandoning) your wants and needs to please and appease other people or things that are on your to-do list. You’re putting yourself at the bottom of your priority pile.
You crave connection, but vulnerability feels dangerous. Getting raw and real with people right now feels like too big a risk for you to take. Especially people in your real life and those close to you.
You struggle with silence, as it makes you feel irrelevant. This means you have very few boundaries and even if you had one, you wouldn't stick to it.
You worry sometimes that you’re always in work mode. You hate to admit it, but you are not taking enough time off.
You don’t feel that sure of yourself right now.
Your audience makes you feel that needed, and you feel like you hold so much responsibility, that you feel guilty for not giving them everything.
You have an insatiable desire to fix everything for everyone, and it’s leaving you feeling exhausted and frustrated.
THESE FEARS ARE DRIVING YOUR BEHAVIOUR AS YOU FIND YOURSELF AVOIDING THINGS, PROCRASTINATING AND REPEATING YOUR OLD CYCLES, WHETHER IT’S RELATIONSHIPS OR SIMPLY REPLYING TO A TEXT MESSAGE.
ULTIMATELY, YOU FEAR THAT YOUR SUCCESS IN ANY AREA ISN’T SUSTAINABLE, THAT IT WILL EVENTUALLY, INEVITABLY END.
AND SO BEFORE IT DOES, YOU ABANDON YOUR CHANCE OF ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS ALTOGETHER BY NOT COMPLETING ON THE ACTIONS YOU SAID YOU WERE GOING TO TAKE.
IT’S LIKE UNKNOWINGLY (OR KNOWINGLY, SOMETIMES) YOU CUT YOUR NOSE OFF TO SPITE YOUR FACE.
MEET YOUR MENTOR
Hi I’m Wend, better known as The Completion Coach.