The 6-month mentorship programme for those who want to take their careers and LIVES to the next level.
If you’re ready for expansion at work and home, then you’ve landed on the right page.
The Elevate Experience is a 1:1 coaching container for people who want to do more, have more and be more - and in a way that feels good, rather than unmanageable.
If you’re an established entrepreneur, influencer or public figure who's not quite yet where they want (or deserve) to be professionally or personally, then keep reading...
I know you’re feeling held back right now in one way or another, either by your visibility, your commitments, or your lack of satisfaction and fulfilment inside and outside of work.
What’s more, I know you’re wondering WTF has to give in order to get it.
I CAN SAY WITH COMPLETE CONFIDENCE THAT IT WON’T BE WHAT YOU THINK.
YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF IN A WAY YOU NEVER HAVE BEFORE.
Like I understand you.
Trust me, I get where you’re at right now.
I specialise in working with people just like you - people who are creative, innovative, visionary… and who have to be visible to make an impact and income.
And so… I know all too well how easily entrepreneurs, influencers and public figures can stop taking care of themselves in their endeavours to meet the requirements and keep up with the demands of others.
But, there’s a fine line between giving people (especially those on your platform) what they want and need, and neglecting what’s important to and necessary for YOU.
You may find yourself tending towards people-pleasing.
Or not showing up online as you really want to, but as someone your audience has come to love and accept.
Maybe you feel like everything has a cost, that your success might cost you the right to a private life (or even your mental health).
Or are you silencing yourself? Not sharing your thoughts, feelings or your opinions because right now they don’t feel relevant, or might let your audience down.
If so, I get it. I really do. But feeling this way is totally natural.
All human beings want is to be loved and accepted (it’s as innate as it is intrinsic). It’s normal to want to belong.
But putting yourself out there in the way you are right now is making you feel more disconnected than ever.
On the one hand, you’re sharing more than you really want to - feeling forced to explain (and/or justify) things 24/7.
Or perhaps the opposite is true - and you feel like you’re being secretive. Sure you’re sharing, but not always the real you. You’re afraid that if people knew the truth about who you actually are, they would leave. That you would be rejected.
Maybe you even struggle to communicate with others outside of the performative habits and behaviours. Maybe you’ve played the role, the part, the character for so long, you worry that showing up as you are (which changes) would lead to abandonment.
You can’t quite kick the little niggle that there’s something wrong with you, you've even questioned at times if you are a bad human!
Shall I tell you what I also know about you?
That you are hoping for and dreaming of so much more.
You have a big vision of all the ways you want to expand and develop in ALL areas of your life, but don’t know what’s driving you OR what the roadblock is...
Perhaps you don’t think you have what it takes...
Or that something has to give...
But you’re wrong.
Because believe it or not, success doesn’t have to have a price tag. It doesn’t have to cost you anything - not your friends, not your family, not your romantic relationships. Not even your freedom or your growth.
And you DO have what it takes to go and get all the goals you’ve set for yourself, you just need to figure out what obstacles are getting in your way and how to overcome them.
I can help.
You can be open with me. You can be honest.
This is deep immersive work, I know.
Everything we do together will be completely confidential. You’re safe to express here and are fully supported.
WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW YOU OPERATE (AND WHY) YOU GET TO FLIP THE SCRIPT ON EVERYTHING.
THE ELEVATE EXPERIENCE IS FOR YOU IF…
You’re longing and yearning to be noticed and to understand yourself, fully, not just who you think you have to be or SHOULD be.
You want to make an impact online, but not have it impact you offline - you want your home life to be just as rewarding and gratifying as your work life.
You are more confident in your abilities at work than you are outside of it - your career or business has always felt safe compared with relationships that feel more dangerous.
You want to reclaim the power in your presence - right now you feel like you only have the right to your platform if you conform to your following’s expectations.
You are censoring yourself online (and/or offline) to maintain your safety and your security - you’ve seen so many people being turned on that you fear it might happen to you, too.
You operate from a place of reactivity - you don’t feel like you necessarily share what you feel inspired to anymore but what performs well and gets interaction/engagement.
You are stuck in a cycle of collecting and analysing data, and letting insights be a measure of your worth.
Your follower count is increasing, but the more people that you gain, the more of yourself you lose. There seems to be less room for you on your account, the more your platform grows.
It becomes about the numbers, but you and I both know, that isn’t all there is to social media.
You are neglecting (or rather, abandoning) your wants and needs to please and appease other people. You’re putting yourself at the bottom of your priority pile.
You crave connection, but vulnerability feels dangerous. Getting raw and real with people right now feels like too big a risk for you to take.
You struggle to set and enforce boundaries with your followers (and if you’re open and honest with yourself, everyone else in your life, too).
You struggle with silence, as it makes you feel irrelevant.
You worry sometimes that you’re addicted to work. You hate to admit it, but you have control issues, and can’t let go of comparing your success to other people’s.
You don’t feel that sure of (or secure in) yourself, but distract yourself from the anxiety and upset with your ever-increasing to-do list.
Your audience makes you feel that needed, and you feel like you hold so much responsibility, that you feel guilty for not giving them everything.
You feel like you OWE your success to your audience, and feel ashamed that you don’t always want to show up for them in the way that they expect.
You have an insatiable desire to fix everything for everyone, and it’s leaving you feeling exhausted and frustrated.
WORST OF ALL - YOU FEAR BEING ABANDONED.
THIS FEAR IS ALSO DRIVING YOUR BEHAVIOUR AS YOU FIND YOURSELF AVOIDING THINGS, PROCRASTINATING AND REPEATING YOUR OLD CYCLES, WHETHER IT’S RELATIONSHIPS OR SIMPLY REPLYING TO A TEXT MESSAGE.
ULTIMATELY, YOU FEAR THAT YOUR SUCCESS IN ANY AREA ISN’T SUSTAINABLE, THAT IT WILL EVENTUALLY, INEVITABLY LEAVE YOUR LIFE.
AND SO BEFORE IT DOES, YOU ABANDON YOUR CHANCE OF ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS ALTOGETHER BY NOT COMPLETING ON THE ACTIONS YOU SAID YOU WERE GOING TO TAKE.
IT’S LIKE UNKNOWINGLY (OR KNOWINGLY, SOMETIMES) YOU CUT YOUR NOSE OFF TO SPITE YOUR FACE.
MEET YOUR MENTOR
Hi I’m Wendy!
a.k.a. The Completion Coach.
Contrary to popular belief, I don’t equip people with productivity tools and techniques to set them up for success, nor do I make promises that people can get more done in less time.
No, I help you understand yourself completely, so that you can complete on the ACTIONS you really want to take.
Which allows you to keep those promises to yourself that until now, you have continuously broken.
I help you get radically self aware, and see that you aren’t moving forward because you’re holding yourself back.
You’re bound not by your circumstances, but the thoughts and feelings you have about yourself, the habits and behaviours you’re engaging in to make yourself feel safe and secure.
The difference between you right now and the person you think has it all, is that you currently keep working based on other people’s frameworks and advice, instead of taking into account how YOU actually operate emotionally.
The person who hasn’t learned to understand themselves so they can achieve what they desire will abandon their wants, their needs, their hopes and their dreams - before they’re taken away from them.
Over the years, they’ve developed a pattern that plays out over and over again (that they don’t quite understand, or even know about sometimes).
You’ve created a story that you believe is true.
That if you have one thing (like work), something else (like home) has to suffer.
That whilst you may be able to get things, you won’t be able to keep them.
To an extent, the story I told myself was similar.
Some might say totally fictional, illogical, irrational, etc.; but actually, it felt very real and very true.
At that time in my life, I used a lot of distraction techniques. Drinking, smoking, shopping on repeat. I was ironically a financial adviser with the secret of being hugely in debt. Always fearing at some point I would be found out and lose it all. Bouncing from relationship to relationship and finding myself chasing goals to try and find my value, because I was struggling to feel I had any.
A lot has changed since then. My life looks very different now to how it did, as do my relationships with others, my work and my bank balance.
My own personal development and spiritual growth brought with them cognisance and awareness. I decided to also take on formal education on relevant subjects and topics to add another set of layers to the knowledge I had gained. I understand myself (and in turn now others) in ways no one had previously been able to put into words before. My fascination with many subjects continues, covering positive psychology, NLP, CBT, Hypnotherapy, EFT, Crystal Healing, Sound Healing, Breathwork, Angel Card reading and meditation.
Each and every client I’ve worked with I’ve understood and enabled them to finally understand themselves.
They have all shared fears of abandonment, and what’s more, have been able to elevate their careers and lives when they understand how (and why) this has been showing up for them.
Now, I don’t know about you, but for me, there’s always divine timing.
You know now that you're curious and ready for a change (otherwise you wouldn’t be on this page), and that suggests to me that it might be worthwhile us having a cuppa and a chat to see whether it would be a fit for us to work together.
What will it actually cover?
There’s no fixed curriculum as this is not a course, it’s coaching, and so your journey will be individualised and personalised to you and your needs.
That being said, I DO make sure each and every one of my clients works their way through The Completion Cycle, my tried, tested and proven-to-work system for sustainable success. And I make sure they work their way through it in ALL areas of their life.
This framework is what helps you make sure you complete on everything you said you were going to over our 6 months together.
So how does it work?
Once your application has been received I review it personally and then I will be in touch to let you know if it sounds suitable for us to have a call.
In this call we will go through all that is included in the package (in detail) so you can understand the full logistics of our time together.
It looks like this…
STEP ONE - Realisation
I will enable you to see and understand yourself in a way that you have never done before, from your characteristics and traits to how you’re showing up with others. We’ll look at mistakes made and lessons to learn. This alone has been life changing for previous clients. When we have awareness in this way; it allows us to create change that feels good, not forced.
STEP TWO - Identification
Our identity can be something that we work with or hide behind. Sometimes we can find that we have become performative to who we think we are, rather than who we want to be. So in this step, we’ll dig deep to find out who you truly desire to be so we can identify what needs to change in order to get there. This is less about the past, and more about mastering your role going forwards.
STEP THREE - Disruption
In order to change we need to disrupt. Being able to interrupt automatic behaviour and actually stop ourselves in our tracks is golden. Why? Because the more you disrupt yourself, the more you get to be in control; rather than old practiced responses. In step three, we’ll focus on releasing thoughts, feelings and habits that aren’t serving you to clear the way for soul shifting change.
STEP FOUR - Integration
We focus on who you need to be and how much ease there could be in reality. We achieve and sustain far more than we thought possible when we move away from all or nothing thinking and into who you need to be in that moment. This final step is about shifting away from a constant to-do list and learning how to take aligned action in steps that feel safe, relevant and feel powerful. Here we’ll come up with a plan of action for becoming who you are - for yourself rather than other people.
Where do you want to be in the next 6 months?
Think about it, feel into it, because you REALLY CAN make it all happen.
It’s about time you stopped playing parts of your personality up or down according to what you think people will and won’t like. It’s time you started being who and doing what YOU like.
Who’s that? What’s that?
Let’s do it together.
The unofficial bio!
Hi I’m Wendy, The Completion Coach.
I help people sustain their success, without letting it define who they are.
My work is primarily with those who have established careers and/or an online audience and are looking to maintain their position without having to hide parts of themselves (or areas of their lives) as the cost.
I use a mix of psychology, NLP, regression hypnotherapy and coaching to facilitate transformation and change.
I also am able to read (and translate) your unique energetic signature so you can understand more about how you operate, and use that to your advantage.
Forever a student, I'm often found digging deeper into the known and unknown, brewing tea, cracking up at memes, chatting to every dog that passes by and whispering to crystals (yes, really).
I’m currently on my 43rd spin round the sun and am never happier than when in the warmth of it. I'm alcohol-free but will lovingly side-eye a Sangria like an old friend from time to time. My life is fun. I prioritise it!
If you want to put you front and centre of your own life and are committed to spending the next six months working on it, complete the questionnaire below.