The 6-month mentorship programme for those who want to elevate themselves in LIFE and get to thrive in their (most likely, very visible) career

If you’re ready for expansion that feels good, at work and at home, then you’ve landed on the right page.

 

The Elevate Experience is a 1:1 coaching container for people who want to reclaim parts of them that feel a little lost or even completely abandoned and get on in areas of their life that they have felt as if they are self-sabotaging on repeat.  This ultimately is about having more joy, love and fun in life and importantly be and feel more YOU - in a way that feels good, rather than unmanageable or forced.

 

I specialise in helping established entrepreneurs, influencers and public figure who are looking for support.

I can guess you’re feeling a bit off right now, maybe you can't even put your finger on it.  But you want more.  You probably feel a bit guilty for even thinking that and actually have put work like THIS off as nonsense or unnecessary at least once before. 

What’s more, you’re probably wondering WTF has to give in order to feel like you can have it all and be YOU, and not feel guilty and meet everyone else's needs, and not feel like you are being shit in one area to fulfil another area, and get to enjoy things..........(basically insert ALL the 'ands' and all the 'things').

*SPOILER ALERT*

I CAN SAY WITH COMPLETE CONFIDENCE THAT THIS EXPERIENCE WON’T BE WHAT YOU THINK IT IS.

THINGS REALLY CAN CHANGE AND IT WILL BE POSSIBLE FOR YOU, EVEN IF YOU HAVE TRIED BEFORE WITH NO SUCCESS.

YOU SEE, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF IN A WAY YOU NEVER HAVE BEFORE.

 

In the way I get to help you understand you.  You see, getting this up close and personal with yourself is life changing.  The reason why things haven't necessarily worked long term in the past, is because we tend to presume the things were going to cause the change - when actually your understanding of YOU does.

Trust me, I see it all the time.

 

I specialise in working with people just like you - people who are creative, seen as successful, independent… and who generally have to be visible to make an impact and income.  Sometimes that visibility can cloud things.

 

I know all too well how easy it is to be successful and struggling.  How the need to be seen as transparent also makes you feel like hiding and how difficult it can be to make change when you fear anyone knowing.

But, here's the thing.  Avoiding things that feel off in your life doesn't make you feel better or even more accepted, it tends to make you feel like you have more to hide!

 

You may even think that everything has a cost so is this just the price of success in one way or another?

 

Often perceived as larger than life, quite the character or someone who has their shit together, even you are confused.

If so, I get it. I really do. But feeling this way is totally natural.

 

All human beings want is to be loved and accepted (it’s as innate as it is intrinsic). It’s normal to want to belong.

 

But right now all of this buried stuff is making you feel more disconnected than ever. 

 

On the one hand, you’re sharing more than you really want to - feeling forced to explain (and/or justify) things 24/7. 

 

Or perhaps the opposite is true - and you feel like you’re being a bit of a fraud because you’re sharing, but not always the real you. You’re afraid that if people knew the truth about who you actually are, they would leave. That you would be rejected. Or maybe even lose it all. 

 

You can’t quite kick the little niggle that there’s something different/wrong with you.  You may even question at times if you are a 'bad'?

Shall I tell you something else I know about you?

 

That you are hoping for and dreaming of so much more.

You have a big vision somewhere in you and even though you are surface level confident about it, you are watering it down. 

Just.  In.  Case.  

 

Perhaps you put your all into work because it's easier than your love life...

Or go around being busy because then you don't have time for that idea...

But you’re wrong.

All wrong. 

 

Because believe it or not, success in all areas is possible and you can sustain it all. 

 

You just have been using the wrong data to date, misunderstanding yourself, let alone external events and other people.

 

I can help.

This is deep immersive work, but it is also light and fun. 

Everything we do together will be completely confidential. You’re safe to express here and are fully supported judgement free.

Apply now for a consultation call to hear how The Elevate Experience, my 1:1 coaching programme, can help you find what you’re looking for WITHOUT losing sight of yourself.

 

OKAY, I'M INTRIGUED

WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND HOW YOU OPERATE (AND WHY) YOU GET TO FLIP THE SCRIPT ON EVERYTHING.

THE ELEVATE EXPERIENCE IS FOR YOU IF…

 

  • You’re longing to understand yourself, fully, not just who you think you have to be or SHOULD be.

  • You want to make an impact online, but not have it impact you offline - you want your home life to be just as rewarding and gratifying as your work life.

  • You are more confident in your abilities at work than you are outside of it - your career or business has always felt safe compared with relationships that feel more dangerous.

  • You are censoring yourself online (and/or offline) to maintain your safety and your security - you’ve seen so many people being turned on that you fear it might happen to you, too.

  • You operate from a place of reactivity - you would love to get back to proactive and excited.

  • You are stuck in a cycle of collecting and analysing data, and letting insights be a measure of your worth.

  • Your follower count is increasing, but the more people that you gain, the more of yourself you lose. There seems to be less room for you on your account, the more your platform grows.

  • You are neglecting (or rather, abandoning) your wants and needs to please and appease other people or things that are on your to-do list. You’re putting yourself at the bottom of your priority pile.

 

AND IF…

  • You crave connection, but vulnerability feels dangerous. Getting raw and real with people right now feels like too big a risk for you to take.  Especially people in your real life and those close to you.

  • You struggle with silence, as it makes you feel irrelevant.  This means you have very few boundaries and even if you had one, you wouldn't stick to it.

  • You worry sometimes that you’re always in work mode. You hate to admit it, but you are not taking enough time off.

  • You don’t feel that sure of yourself right now.

  • Your audience makes you feel that needed, and you feel like you hold so much responsibility, that you feel guilty for not giving them everything.

  • You have an insatiable desire to fix everything for everyone, and it’s leaving you feeling exhausted and frustrated.

 

THESE FEARS ARE DRIVING YOUR BEHAVIOUR AS YOU FIND YOURSELF AVOIDING THINGS, PROCRASTINATING AND REPEATING YOUR OLD CYCLES, WHETHER IT’S RELATIONSHIPS OR SIMPLY REPLYING TO A TEXT MESSAGE.

 

ULTIMATELY, YOU FEAR THAT YOUR SUCCESS IN ANY AREA ISN’T SUSTAINABLE, THAT IT WILL EVENTUALLY, INEVITABLY END.

 

AND SO BEFORE IT DOES, YOU ABANDON YOUR CHANCE OF ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS ALTOGETHER BY NOT COMPLETING ON THE ACTIONS YOU SAID YOU WERE GOING TO TAKE.

 

IT’S LIKE UNKNOWINGLY (OR KNOWINGLY, SOMETIMES) YOU CUT YOUR NOSE OFF TO SPITE YOUR FACE.

MEET YOUR MENTOR

 

Hi I’m Wend, better known as The Completion Coach.

 

Contrary to popular belief, I don’t equip people with productivity tools and techniques to set them up for success, nor do I make promises that people can get more done in less time. I know I don’t!

 

What I actually do is help you understand yourself completely. Because with that knowledge you are able to really succeed in all areas of your life, especially the ones where you have found yourself repeating patterns over and over again in the past. 

 

You’re bound not by your circumstances, but instead the thoughts and feelings you have about yourself, creating whole stories and leading to habits and behaviours you’re engaging in to make yourself feel safe and secure.

 

The difference after working with me is that you have an understanding of yourself, of how you operate and WHY.

 

Yes, even the bits that make no sense (in fact, especially those bits), we get to create long lasting deep change from an entirely different place.

 

You’ve created a story that you believe is true but until now, you have had missing information. I'm pretty sure you believe you are capable of short bursts of getting things, you just aren't sure you can keep them!  You are good in one area of life but doomed in another. 

 

To an extent, the story I told myself for a long time was similar.

 

Some might say totally fictional, illogical, irrational, etc.; but actually, it felt very real and very true. 

 

At that time in my life, I used a lot of distraction techniques. Working long hours, drinking and plans to go to everything, smoking, shopping and more shopping, all on repeat. I was successfully busy and externally I was doing okay.  Ironically a great financial adviser with the secret of being hugely in debt. Bouncing from relationship to relationship and finding myself chasing goals to try and find my value, because I was struggling to feel I had any.

 

A lot has changed since then.  How I feel about myself has changed in a way that is difficult to sum up, but put simply, I value myself, I like myself. I can even admit to loving myself. Even the parts of me I thought were a total mess. The bits I hoped no-one would find out.

 

My own personal development and spiritual growth brought with them cognisance and awareness. I decided to also take on formal education in several areas to add another set of layers to the knowledge I had gained. I understand myself (and in turn now other people) in a way no one had previously been able to put into words before. 

 

My fascination and continuous education on many subjects is always ongoing, covering positive psychology, trauma, addiction, NLP, CBT, past life regression hypnotherapy, EFT, crystal healing, sound healing, astrology, breathwork, angel card reading and meditation.

 

Each and every client I’ve worked with is now equipped to finally understand themselves in a way they never have before.  With that they are able to free themselves from old stories, patterns and importantly: shame.  From there they finally get to see a whole host of possibilities available to them, all from a place of inner security. 

 

 

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What will it actually cover?

There’s no fixed curriculum as this is not a course, it’s coaching, and so your journey will be individualised and personalised to you and your needs.

That being said, I DO make sure each and every one of my clients works their way through The Completion Cycle, my tried, tested and proven-to-work system for sustainable success. And I make sure they work their way through it in ALL areas of their life.

This framework is what helps you make sure you complete on everything you said you were going to over our 6 months together.

 

So how does it work?

Once your application has been received I review it personally and then I will be in touch to let you know if it sounds suitable for us to have a call.

In this call we will go through all that is included in the package (in detail) so you can understand the full logistics of our time together.

It looks like this…

 

STEP ONE - Realisation

I will enable you to see and understand yourself in a way that you have never done before, from your characteristics and traits to how you’re showing up with others. We’ll look at mistakes made and lessons to learn. This alone has been life changing for previous clients. When we have awareness in this way; it allows us to create change that feels good, not forced. 

 

STEP TWO - Identification

Our identity can be something that we work with or hide behind. Sometimes we can find that we have become performative to who we think we are, rather than who we want to be. So in this step, we’ll dig deep to find out who you truly desire to be so we can identify what needs to change in order to get there. This is less about the past, and more about mastering your role going forwards.

 

STEP THREE - Disruption

In order to change we need to disrupt. Being able to interrupt automatic behaviour and actually stop ourselves in our tracks is golden. Why? Because the more you disrupt yourself, the more you get to be in control; rather than old practiced responses. In step three, we’ll focus on releasing thoughts, feelings and habits that aren’t serving you to clear the way for soul shifting change.

 

STEP FOUR - Integration

We focus on who you need to be and how much ease there could be in reality.  We achieve and sustain far more than we thought possible when we move away from all or nothing thinking and into who you need to be in that moment. This final step is about shifting away from a constant to-do list and learning how to take aligned action in steps that feel safe, relevant and feel powerful. Here we’ll come up with a plan of action for becoming who you are - for yourself rather than other people.

 

Where do you want to be in the next 6 months?

 

Think about it, feel into it, because you REALLY CAN make it all happen.

 

It’s about time you stopped playing parts of your personality up or down according to what you think people will and won’t like. It’s time you started being who and doing what YOU like.

 

Who’s that? What’s that?

 

Let’s do it together.

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'Wendy is an incredibly positive person with a natural way of helping you see things from a different perspective and break things down into manageable steps. Without this coaching I'm not sure how long it would have been, if ever, before taking a step in the right direction."

'It's very difficult, when you're in your own bubble to spot patterns of behaviour or habits. The session with her was enlightening and uplifting, and importantly has given me the tools to succeed and sustain the path I'm on. She's in it with you."

'The one thing that held me back in life was my inability to finish anything, and with that issue now solved my life and success is sky rocketing and I'm so excited! I've had many coaches in my life but none anywhere as incredible as [Wendy]'

'Working with Wendy has been an absolute DREAM. She's helped me get clear on who I am, what I want, my self-limiting beliefs and what's holding me back'