Meet the Completion Coach
"FOR A LONG TIME IT HAD SEEMED TO ME THAT LIFE WAS ABOUT TO BEGIN - REAL LIFE. BUT THERE WAS ALWAYS SOME OBSTACLE IN THE WAY, SOMETHING TO BE GOTTEN THROUGH FIRST, SOME UNFINISHED BUSINESS, TIME STILL TO BE SERVED, OR A DEBT TO BE PAID. THEN LIFE WOULD BEGIN. AT LAST IT DAWNED ON ME THAT THESE OBSTACLES WERE MY LIFE."
- Alfred D. Souza
I had the overwhelming niggling feeling I wasn’t doing what I really wanted to do with my life. I had spent way too long worrying about every decision, talking myself out of everything and distracting myself by trying to accept this is ‘just the way it is’.
I then tried to convince myself that it was probably too late, I’m too old and any other excuse I could think up.
On reflection, I used to compare my life to outdated stories and self imposed rules I thought I had to live by. I constantly felt like I was failing. I was also VERY thin skinned so any criticism could stop me straight away or prevent me from actually trying anything. I was scared of my own voice and got lost in what my opinion and goals actually were.
I always felt a little intimidated by a lot of life, which left me feeling inadequate. I relied on alcohol in social situations to make me feel braver (note: this never quite went as well as I thought it would!). I was also a shopaholic, I purchased something every single day. Realising all this "stuff" wasn't making things any better I admitted I was a bit lost and actually numbing out with these totally socially acceptable behaviours. I didn’t stop to contemplate what I was numbing out from, or why.
I was giving way too much focus to what people would think of me and I cared more about what "they" might say than I did about me living a life that I might just love. So I decided it was finally time to change that. I did just that. Together with my training detailed below, my now 43 years spinning round the sun have given me some experiences that have added to my professional toolkit.
I work primarily with public figures, people with influence, entrepreneur/business owners and creatives.
I qualified via an ACCPH accredited life coaching course with further training and qualifications in NLP/EFT/Positive Psychology/CBT/Meditation/Hypnosis/Crystal healing/Sound Healing & Reiki. I use a unique blend of practical tools with spiritual mentoring. I mix coaching with mentoring and a consultation service depending upon the individual client needs.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE. SO MANY PEOPLE FEEL THE SAME WAY BUT ARE JUST NOT ADMITTING IT. THE SHAME OF OUR STORIES IS HOLDING US BACK.